Comments on: Clay Marzo Changing Views On Aspergers http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540 The Independent Republic of Snow, Skate, Surf News Fri, 24 May 2013 07:23:16 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Jennifer http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-49084 Jennifer Wed, 05 May 2010 05:57:15 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-49084 Jill, I’m the parent of a child on the spectrum and I am in awe of your grace and acceptance of your situation. My husband introduced me to clay. The amazing man that he is! I hope some time my daughter will shake his had and learn a quiet little secret from him. And I from you! All my love to you and your family! xoxo

]]> By: Industry http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-48956 Industry Thu, 29 Apr 2010 20:37:31 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-48956 This kid has more talent than most his age. He needs to break through on the contest side and then watch out. For him to be doing this with what he has is awesome story. He brother is Cheyne Magnusson.

]]> By: Julie Farmer http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-48917 Julie Farmer Wed, 28 Apr 2010 04:04:58 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-48917 Hi I just saw Clay’s story on TV. Amazing! There has been some breakthrough science regarding all forms of Autism. I am working with many physicians and would love to be able to share this information that is just coming to light. I believe it may help Clay as it has me. If you know how I can reach his mother please let me know. I am a mother of 4 myself. My email address is 100wattmax@sbcglobal.net. Blessings.

]]> By: John http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-48881 John Tue, 27 Apr 2010 01:20:07 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-48881 Tess,
Understand what you are saying. I’m a dad to a 28 year old that we believe is aspie. Always questioning if we have done enough, or done the right things. He didn’t go to college, – struggled with school, but has the most perserverence as anyone I have ever met. We made up a saying that winners always try. Our son has always tried. He has worked at a local grocery store since HS. He likes it, but I always question if we should have pushed more, as you stated that you question. Our number one goal has been that he be happy. He is happy and a caring person, spending alot (all) of his time with family when not working his 12 hours a week. I guess that is an important thing – being a happy, kind person.
Sounds like your daughter is content and isn’t that the most important thing?
A proud Dad.
John

]]> By: tess http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-47848 tess Fri, 19 Mar 2010 14:46:50 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-47848 17 yo daughter, who is Aspie. She too loves the water. No real special focus, just seems at such peace with such gracefullness. She seems to become one with the water. She loves animals, & they seem to respond to her. She doesn’t have ‘friends’, but is liked to a degree. There’s just no invites, etc. She’s content with that. She’s a beautiful girl with a lost look on her face until she smiles:). She never complains. Attends HS of 2800 students. Impresses us daily with her abilities in school. She has taught us more than we will ever teach her. Always wonder if I’m doing enough, pushing enough, waiting long enough, listening enough, etc. So hard. We only get one try at this. Since she’s content, she’s not pushing for more. That’s where I get confused with myself. Do I continue to push for more for her?? Where will she fit after HS? Will college be any different for her? Would greatly appreciate any insight or advice. Just trying to keep it simple, but not too simple~ proud mom

]]> By: Chris (flyboy) Alderink =) http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-43949 Chris (flyboy) Alderink =) Sun, 18 Oct 2009 04:39:24 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-43949 I also now know i have Asbergers. Struggling with physco doctors, therapists not being able to understand me, they cant figure out why i couldnt work anymore…cuz i look normal…just too much social over stimulation. Self acceptance really important, and being content in who & what you are.
~Life Is Never Greener On The Other Side~

I started Bodyboarding on http://www.surfgrandhaven.com when i was 15 & was able to drive to the beach at 16 & still going at it, even outta state.
Yeah tho i can be very hyperfocused on something and be quite incredable at it…but not one to be consistant.
Clay Marzo with Asburgers…such an Inspiration…and i can truely relate watching him on videos, etc.

Its challanging tho having friends & looking normal not being able to function normally in Life…usually always misunderstood.
I have many interests in life…but gotta have WaTeR…i am too more comfortable & can breathe better being in WaTeR.

But got me a Dog = Chihuahua Pug Mix….shes my Angel/Best Friend/Daughter & just turned 6 years 10/16/09
dog – god
~Water = Life = Heaven~
~A Dog Doesnt Care If Your Rich Or Poor,
Give Em Your Heart & It Will Give You Their Heart~

p.s. glad to read the comments by others here. :o )

]]> By: Forrest http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-43624 Forrest Wed, 30 Sep 2009 17:25:51 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-43624 I also have Aspergers and relate to Clay’s and everyones struggles. My passion is snowboarding and photography. Please contact me if anyone wants to talk about their struggles or their childrens struggles. I did not find out I had Aspergers until later in life. The diagnosise helped me understand that their was a reason I was the way I am. We may be different but are just as human as the rest of us.

]]> By: Gwen http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-40428 Gwen Sat, 08 Aug 2009 02:09:46 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-40428 Dear Eric:I work at a residential school for youth 13to 22 years old. Many of these young people have Asperger’s. If you do not mind my asking, I was wondering if you would speak more on your college experience. Also, anyone reading this please let me know if there is a preferred college or university that Aspies aspire to attend. Thank-you, Gwen

]]> By: Eric V.G. http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-40291 Eric V.G. Fri, 07 Aug 2009 03:06:04 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-40291 Patsy,

I have it myself as a college student (22 years old, senior) so I can imagine how tough it would be on your son; to this day, I feel like I don’t belong except on stage. If I may, maybe I can help.

First, is there anything that your son does extraordinarily well? Aspies are said to have one or two things that they focus on and so get really good at. You could nurture that talent (for example, my niche is acting) and encourage him to explore his talents.

Second, if you believe that it is in his best interest, then it might be beneficial for him to do the boarding option. With him entering middle school, it’s going to be difficult for him to relate to his peers, and there will unfortunately be the people who will judge, especially at that age. However, it might also be beneficial for him to try public school because it would open his eyes, and he can grow emotionally and spiritually. Above all, I say listen to him, because that’s what many Aspies want in the long run- sit him down and lay out the options, and see how he reacts.

Finally, I will say that as long as he has love from you and his family, he will be on the right track to success. All he wants is to be understood.

Good luck.

Eric

]]> By: gale daddona http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540&cpage=1#comment-40064 gale daddona Thu, 06 Aug 2009 02:54:40 +0000 http://www.boardistan.com/?p=1540#comment-40064 Clay is one incredible and a wonderful indivdual. My nephew has asperger’s as well. Justin is 10 years old and is struggling so much to be accepted by peers. Clay you give my family & especially my sister-in-law hope. You are awesome Clay!!!!! Thank you for being you, Gale Daddona

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